Life never seems to be the way we want it, but we live it the best way we can.There is no perfect life, but we can fill it with perfect Moments..
To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people and the affection of children; to earn the appreciation of honest critics and endure the betrayal of false friends. To appreciate beauty; to find the best in others; to leave the world a bit better whether by a healthy child, or a garden patch or a redeemed social condition; to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived. This is to have succeeded.
If you have a good name, if you are more often right than you are wrong, if your children respect you, if your grandchildren are glad to see you, if your friends can count on you and you can count on them in time of trouble, if you can face God and say "I have done my best", then you are a success.
The secret of getting ahead is getting started...
Monday, January 11, 2010
Secret to Success
so long long long never post!
hey folks! so sorry for not being update!
Recently is busy..
at the end of 2009 was busy too, cuz Christmas period and i went oversea to BKK:)
The start of the beginning of year is being busy...working and working and of course, spending time with some friends..haha
ANyway very belated MERRY Christmas and A HAPPY neW yeAR:)
well..now is currently having my school days, of course rushing my report and work in the weekend.
quotation of the day: Words are windows to the heart. :)
i shall post nice story lateR:)
Wednesday, December 9, 2009
something to be proud of hehe:)
something to share with u all..
Monday, December 7, 2009
FRIENDSHIP AND LOVE
- Love starts with a smile, grows with a kiss, and ends with a tear.
- Don't cry over anyone who won't cry over you.
- Good friends are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget.
- You can only go as far as you push.
- Actions speak louder than words.
- The hardest thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else.
- Don't let the past hold you back; you're missing the good stuff.
- Life's short. If you don't look around once in a while, you might miss it.
- A best friend is like a four leaf clover: hard to find and lucky to have.
- If you think that the world means nothing, think again. You might mean the world to someone else.
- When it hurts to look back, and you're scared to look ahead, you can look beside you and your best friend will be there
- True friendship never ends.
- Friends are forever.
- Good friends are like stars....You don't always see them, but you know they are always there.
- Don't frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile.
- What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry?
- NOBODY IS PERFECT UNTIL YOU FALL IN LOVE WITH THEM. (Isn't that the truth?)
- Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end.
There may be somebody who is thinking about you RIGHT NOW and wishing that you were around. That's the wonderful thing about friendship-you always feel loved and cared about.
The most important thing to remember is... Always appreciate the friends that you have.
A fight may come and go very easily, but a friendship could last forever.
For every second spent in anger, a minute of happiness is wasted. :)
busy life~
Wednesday, November 25, 2009
Touching Story.... Father & Son (nice story)
One old man was sitting with his 25 years old son in the train.
Train is about to leave the station.
All passengers are settling down their seat.
As train started young man was filled with lot of joy and curiosity.
He was sitting on the window side.
He went out one hand and feeling the passing air. He shouted, "Papa see all trees are going behind".
Old man smile and admired son feelings.
Beside the young man one couple was sitting and listing all the conversion between father and son.
They were little awkward with the attitude of 25 years old man behaving like a small child.
Suddenly young man again shouted, "Papa see the pond and animals. Clouds are moving with train".
Couple was watching the young man in embarrassingly.
Now its start raining and some of water drops touches the young man's hand.
He filled with joy and he closed the eyes.
He shouted again," Papa it's raining, water is touching me, see papa".
Couple couldn't help themselves and ask the old man.
"Why don't you visit the Doctor and get treatment for your son."
Old man said, “Yes, We are coming from the hospital as Today my son got his eye sight for first time in his life".
Moral: "Don’t draw conclusions until you know all the facts".
AGAIN wahaha
Friday, November 20, 2009
tuesday, wednesday, thursday and FRIDAY:)
Wednesday:
i went to work as i need to cover for someone and i think was lucky that. that day no fyp so i manage to go work at 1pm..a bit tired but please with the sales:) and i didnt went club, although they ask me to ok! haha
Thursday:
class was very funny tdy! why cuz a lot of things happen haha! is damn joker! well~ i didn't except this haha.
But well tdy i gt new friend cuz new team:) friendly guy:)
Tuesday, November 17, 2009
mOndAY!
AARRGGHH!! is monday.. tired la..y? cuz previous day work then sat went out never sleep well.. but not the work wrong la is i go back home never go sleep i use comp till 1plus..woke up by 6plus--> i have a buanana wake me up! haha
we went to school n not being late tdy. i today want to impress my faci i am not late, but tdy he is not here:S was a relief faci..nvm i try to not to be late next week..
ans went back home and have a nap in the late evening haha!
Sunday, November 15, 2009
Fri, sat & sunday
Well..friday was black friday..At the start of the day was quite okay..But well at the end not so..y?
let me explain school hours was ok but after school kinda of rain..so a bit caught in rain..but still okay..then need to meet my colleagues at 8.30pm so in the mean time nth to do so Shirley ask me join her to town:)
We meet chill chill a while talk talk:) she is very vexed in her life...well..Shirley jia you! you can do it! you can solve the problem:)
then my hp was like kinda of battery low...how am i going to contact ppl?
7plus I left them and went to bugis meet the rest..some things happen but then is solved..nvm I think is never have a really organise..nvm next time…
Saturday quite a fun day, went out with qx, j and sh..we play majong I lost 4 bucks but it was ok..qx is bigger winner haha..then we went to indulge restaurant eat and watch movie:D hehe
Paranormal activity not very nice, is like LAME waste my 10 bucks!!! We also went cheese prata to have our supper..hmm..thx to j thx to him make our day easier with transport:)
Thursday, November 12, 2009
tues, wed n thurs
Monday, November 9, 2009
i want to make my blog alive!
omgosh! i realise something that i long time never blog, i think i shall blog more. yeah!
hmm..well..i change phone to Samsung omnia pro which i think is kinda of weird like i still not really used to it and sometimes i have no clue what to press, i still need time to synchronise my phone.
Well tdy is Monday..this time is not nana over slept is me, luckily she havent leave house, if not she will like an idiot waiting for me oops..
hmm..well..i don't know why my phone so easily low batt, i think the silent mode vibration is too strong that is waste my battery life..
hmm..so meet we nana ard 9 plus? then went to cwp have a breakfast session at ya kun:) nice food:) especially the egg:)
Reach class was about 1015am..i know we are like totally very late and was not in first meeting..minus point for tdy...dun like Monday..everyday Monday my marks was like RED! and the sad thing is all C! i wonder DN teacher (faci) how he grade! Arrrggghhh....
Time flies very fast, we rush to finish our work..but at last we finish it..heng sia!
Very fast class end...and meet up with dawn, jo n germ for Sister keeper!
nice show! touching! :D
hmm..went sumo house..and i told them a lame joke..that why sumo house no sumo..so naughty sumo never stay at his house haha!
i was also talking to this ant..telling the ant that he/she should not be there..as we are eating is rude u know Mr./ Ms. ANT haha! hmm..i think was funny..cuz too bore so talk to the ant..i did'nt kill it..i just encourage the ant to leave! haha! how lame and funny was i! hehe:D
Then i wanted to buy this berms, but i didn't u know why? Because i going with Mr. EO and a friend to Bangkok during dec holidays:) 19 dec to 23dec wees~ plane ticket was exp..but well go there and enjoy no harm ritE? i want to shop a lot ! haha
So me and germ went back:) and jo went back with dawn:)
Arrgghh,..tmr gt ut...! hope will not be that difficult and easy to understand the question?
Monday, October 26, 2009
Sunday, October 25, 2009
welll...how's life?
hmm..so long...i havent been posting..
well..life now is busy with studies, work, fyp, celebration, holidays here and there
during holidays i went KL wees~ spend abt S$400...(can buy i touch lol)
sad i cant i touch now...
hmm..i oso been jb sometimes during holidays..make a few new friends during holidays:)
after holidays..is studies and working..
monday is worst day...
hmm...sometimes quite tired..cuz work and study but i can mangement my time:) hehe
hmm...i have started my fyp2..need sometimes to do my logs..which i onli did 1.......
hmm...work life soso..sometimes happened..but it oso ended..so well...doesn't really matter..
hmm...i oso receive a lot of wishes, gifts and celebrations, surprise with friends:)
a note for them:
Thanks those gifts and wishes..thanks for the surprises and celebration:)
love it very much:)
hehe
I'm still growing!!
a nice story to sharE:)
Sir Edmund Hillary was the first man to climb Mount Everest.
On May 29, 1953 he scaled the highest mountain then known to man-29,000 feet straight up. He was knighted for his efforts.
He even made American Express card commercials because of it!
However, until we read his book, High Adventure,
we don't understand that Hillary had to grow into this success.
You see, in 1952 he attempted to climb Mount Everest , but failed. A few weeks later a group in England asked him to address its members.
Hillary walked on stage to a thunderous applause. The audience was recognizing an attempt at greatness, but Edmund Hillary saw himself as a failure. He moved away from the microphone and walked to the edge of the platform. He made a fist and pointed at a picture of the mountain.
He said in a loud voice, " Mount Everest , you beat me the first time, but I'll beat you the next time because you've grown all you are going to grow... but I'm still growing!"
This is the attitude that has made most of the world renowned achievers to reach their goal in life!
The attitude of “ learning & growing” every moment in life!
Monday, October 12, 2009
A real story quite long but worth to read it:)
A conversation between a soldier and software engineer in Shatabdi Train.
Mr. Vivek Pradhan was not a happy man. He was the project manager and still not entitled to air travel. It was not the prestige he sought, he had tried to reason with the admin person, it was the savings in time. He opened his case and took out the laptop, determined to put the time to some good use.
'Are you from the software industry sir,' the man beside him was staring appreciatively at the laptop.
Vivek glanced briefly and mumbled in affirmation, handling the laptop now with exaggerated care and importance as if it were an expensive car.
'You people have brought so much advancement to the country, Sir. Today everything is getting computerized.'
'Thanks,' smiled Vivek, turning around to give the man a look. He always found it difficult to resist appreciation.
'You people always amaze me,' the man continued, 'You sit in an office and write something on a computer and it does so many big things outside.'
Vivek smiled deprecatingly. Naiveness demanded reasoning not anger. 'It is not as simple as that, my friend. It is not just a question of writing a few lines. There is a lot of process that goes behind it.' 'It is complex, very complex.'
'It has to be. No wonder you people are so highly paid,' came the reply.
This was not turning out as Vivek had thought. A hint of belligerence crept into his so far affable, persuasive tone. ' Everyone just sees the money. No one sees the amount of hard work we have to put in.
'Let me give you an example. Take this train. The entire railway reservation system is computerized. You can book a train ticket between any two stations from any of the hundreds of computerized booking centers across the country. Thousands of transactions accessing a single database, at a time concurrently; data integrity, locking, data security. Do you understand the complexity in designing and coding such a system?'
The man was awestuck; quite like a child at a planetarium. 'You design and code such things'.
'I used to,' Vivek paused for effect, 'but now I am the project manager.'
'Oh!' sighed the man, as if the storm had passed over, 'so your life is easy now.'
This was like the last straw for Vivek. He retorted, 'Oh come on, does life ever get easy as you go up the ladder. Responsibility only brings more work..
Design and coding! That is the easier part. Now I do not do it, but I am responsible for it and believe me, that is far more stressful. My job is to get the work done in time and with the highest quality. To tell you about the pressures, there is the customer at one end, always changing his requirements, the user at the other, wanting something else, and your boss, always expecting you to have finished it yesterday.' 'My friend,' he concluded triumphantly, 'you don't know what it is to be in the Line of Fire'.
The man sat back in his chair, his eyes closed as if in realization. When he spoke after sometime, it was with a calm certainty that surprised Vivek.
'I know sir. I know what it is to be in the Line of Fire'. He was staring blankly, as if no passenger, no train existed, just a vast expanse of time.
'There were 30 of us when we were ordered to capture Point 4875 in the cover of the night. The enemy was firing from the top. There was no knowing where the next bullet was going to come from and for whom.In the morning when we finally hoisted the Tricolour at the top only 4 of us were alive.'
'You are a...?'
'I am Subhedar Sushant from the 13 J&K Rifles on duty at Peak 4875 in kargil. They tell me I have completed my term and can opt for a soft assignment. But, tell me sir, can one give up duty just because it makes life easier. On the dawn of that capture, one of my colleagues lay injured in the snow, open to enemy fire while we were hiding behind a bunker. It was my job to go and fetch that soldier to safety. But my captain sahib refused me permission and went ahead himself. He said that the first pledge he had taken as a Gentleman Cadet was to put the "Safety and Welfare of the Nation foremost followed by the Safety and Welfare of the Men" he commanded and his own personal safety came last, always and every time.' 'He was killed as he shielded and brought that injured soldier into the bunker. Every morning thereafter, as we stood guard, I could see him taking all those bullets, which were actually meant for me. I know sir. I know, what it is to be in the Line of Fire.'
Vivek looked at him in disbelief not sure of how to respond. Abruptly, he switched off the laptop. It seemed trivial, even insulting to edit a Word document in the presence of a man for whom valour and duty was a daily part of life; valour and sense of duty which he had so far attributed only to epical heroes. The train slowed down as it pulled into the station, and Subhedar Sushant picked up his bags to alight.
'It was nice meeting you sir.'
Vivek fumbled with the handshake. This hand had climbed mountains, pressed the trigger, and hoisted the tricolour. Suddenly, as if by impulse, he stood up at attention and his right hand went up in an impromptu salute. It was the least he felt he could do for the country.
PS: The incident he narrated during the capture of Peak 4875 is a true-life incident during the Kargil war. Capt. Batra sacrificed his life while trying to save one of the men he commanded, as victory was within sight. For this and various other acts of bravery, he was awarded Param Vir Chakra, the nation's highest military award, and after that as is known about this nation, all such sacrifices of our soldiers are conveniently forgotten and that's the saddest part.
Please live humbly, there are great people around us, let us learn, winners are .....
• too busy to be sad,
• too positive to be doubtful,
• too optimistic to be fearful
• and too determined to be defeated
• Self-trust is the first secret of success.
Tuesday, October 6, 2009
Value
A well known speaker started off his seminar by holding up a $20 bill. In the room of 200, he asked, "Who would like this $20 bill?"
Hands started going up.
He said, "I am going to give this $20 to one of you but first, let me do this." He proceeded to crumple the dollar bill up.
He then asked, "Who still wants it?"
Still the hands were up in the air.
"Well," he replied, "What if I do this?" And he dropped it on the ground and started to grind it into the floor with his shoe.
He picked it up, now all crumpled and dirty. "Now who still wants it?" Still the hands went into the air.
"My friends, you have all learned a very valuable lesson. No matter what I did to the money, you still wanted it because it did not decrease in value. It was still worth $20.
Many times in our lives, we are dropped, crumpled, and ground into the dirt by the decisions we make and the circumstances that come our way.
We feel as though we are worthless. But no matter what has happened or what will happen, you will never lose your value. You are special - Don't ever forget it!
Puppies for SALE:)
Mister," he said, "I want to buy one of your puppies."
"Well," said the farmer, as he rubbed the sweat off the back of his neck, "these puppies come from fine parents and cost a good deal of money."
The boy dropped his head for a moment. Then reaching deep into his pocket, he pulled out a handful of change and held it up to the farmer. "I've got thirty-nine cents. Is that enough to take a look?"
"Sure," said the farmer.
And with that he let out a whistle,"Here,Dolly!" he called.
Out from the doghouse and down the ramp ran Dolly followed by four little balls of fur. The little boy pressed his face against the chain link fence. His eyes danced with delight.
As the dogs made their way to the fence, the little boy noticed something else stirring inside the doghouse. Slowly another little ball appeared; this One noticeably smaller. Down the ramp it slid. Then in a somewhat awkward manner the little pup began hobbling toward the others, doing its best to catch up....
"I want that one," the little boy said, pointing to the runt.
The farmer knelt down at the boy's side and said, "Son, you don't want that puppy. He will never be able to run and play with you like these other dogs would."
With that the little boy stepped back from the fence, reached down, and began rolling up one leg of his trousers. In doing so he revealed a steel brace running down both sides of his leg attaching itself To a specially made shoe. Looking back up at the farmer, he said, "You see sir, I don't run too well myself, and he will need Someone who understands."
The world is full of people who need someone who understands.
Tuesday, September 29, 2009
Interesting facts on EYES:)
wow wow wow
